1. Use eye contact. Looking at your partner directly in the eye will give you a better, closer connection - and be insanely hot.
2. Laugh at themselves. Don't take it too seriously. Sex is about intimacy and having fun - any weird noises and potential near falls-off-the-bed shouldn't be a mood killer.
3. Introduce sex toys for added fun for both parties. Sex toys don't have to be scary, and there are plenty of options that give both partners pleasure rather than just one of you. As long as you talk about it beforehand and don't whip one out as a surprise, a sex toy can make a great addition to the bedroom.
4. Masturbate. If you get to know yourself (with your hands, or with a sex toy - there are a lot of options to explore) and find out what really works for you, you'll be way more confident asking for it in bed, or showing your partner how to give you what you want.
5. Let their partner watch. Whether this is via a striptease or by letting your partner watch you masturbate with a toy, know that they get off on you getting off - which is only a good thing.
6. Praise their partner. Who doesn't love praise? If there's something they do in bed that you love, tell them.
7. Get their partner to be vocal, too. Being enthralled in their pleasure as well as your own will let you know how much of a beast you're being in the bedroom, and reassure you that they're enjoying what you're doing, making you all the more confident to continue on.
8. Go on top. Having your body in full view will be great for your partner, and it means you can take control, and they'll love being able to see you.
9. SMILE. Seriously, it's hot to let your partner know that you're having a good time and having FUN with what you're doing, and what they're doing to you. That's the whole point, right?
10. Bring in some new accessories – if vibrators aren't enough, try an introduction of lube, enhanced condoms, or smaller sex toys. If you're both comfortable and they work, why not!
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